4 Tips for Getting Your Kink On

The term ‘kinky sex’ tends to bring pictures of sexy leather outfits, whips and handcuffs to mind. To the average person all that stuff might seem strange and unnecessary. After all, sex the good old-fashioned way is quite enough, right? However, as relationships progresses and once-raging fires begin to dwindle, you might have no other choice to but to ‘get your kink on’.

In our opinion, the negative connotations that kinky sex has is rather foolish. If it’s practiced safely and neither you nor your partner are both willing, then what else is there to worry about? So here are some tips to help you and your loved break some new adventurous ground:

Try Some Light Bondage

Plenty of women and men like being tied up during sex. The idea of becoming an object of lust or a ‘plaything’ can be quite arousing and a good way to act it out is through the use of chains and handcuffs. For instance, you could try handcuffing your partner’s hands behind their back or to the bed posts, essentially making him/her a ‘slave’ to your every lustful whim.

You might not even have to use any toys. You could simply restrain your partner by holding down their hands above their heads. If this receives a positive response, you could try taking things a bit further.

Try Anal

Anal is probably one of the most common ways to get kinky with your partner. A lot of women are opposed to anal as it can get quite uncomfortable, especially if you’re not used to it. However, with the use of anal toys like dilators and appropriate lubricant, you should be able to increase her comfort and allow the both of you to have a really good time.

So if you’re willing to give it a try, we highly recommend you go ahead and buy anal toys online.

Try Some Role-Playing

Role-playing is a great way to re-invent yourself and bring a previously-untapped part of you to the table (or the bed). Both you and your partner no doubt have sexual fantasies so why not live them out? If you’ve never done it before you might want to try out with some light scenarios.

For instance the stripper/customer scenario is quite popular and effective. However, you must both be comfortable with it. If your partner doesn’t feel comfortable or doesn’t know how to give you a lap dance, you may have to go for something else.

Invite a Third Person

One of the kinkiest things you can do is to invite someone to join in the next time you have sex. The stranger’s level of involvement can vary from actively participating in your ‘romping’ to merely watching.

The most important thing is to make sure that both you and your partner set comfortable boundaries with the stranger- restrictions that both of you agree on. For instance, if the stranger is invited to watch, does he/she have to be fully clothed? Is he/she allowed to touch herself? These are the things that you must work out beforehand.

There’s nothing wrong with getting kinky in order to spice up your sex life. As long as there’s strong consent and a mutual understanding between you and your partner, there’s really no reason why you shouldn’t go for it!




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